The 5 Common Behaviors of Unhappy People.

Our mental behavior plays a vital part in deciding the quality of life we live. At times the external circumstances can and does influence our life and we end up becoming unhappy and depressed. With consistent effort and persistence we can easily turn around the situation. Our thinking, behavior, and lifestyle play a big part … Read moreThe 5 Common Behaviors of Unhappy People.

9 Things My Job Loss Taught Me About Self-Improvements.

When you think of Self-Improvements, I imagine you someone with a mystified, low self-assurance, in own lost world. But that is not what self-improvements always is or perceived to be. Many a times it looks like there is nothing to improve. Seriously, isn’t it? For a larger share of population, it always ends with what … Read more9 Things My Job Loss Taught Me About Self-Improvements.

Why it happened to me?

It was 6,O’Clock in the morning alarm clock and I was struggling to get up, and to change the schedule that has been part of my life for many years.

But that feeling of living a new life, and to get the wish realized was giving me goose bumps. Yes! the excitement of joining my 1st Job.

I had to report by 8:00 AM and I was well before the schedule.

Well that was obvious, isn’t it?

It took off brilliantly, and I started enjoying my time like never before. Visited places, met new people, ate different cuisines and much more. You can easily make out how excited I was. I was living with dreams.

Now, with the scheme of things unfolding in few weeks and months, my life turned upside down. From landing a good job to loosing it within few months was unbearable.

However they may say, it was external circumstances, I knew something went wrong which was against me.

I felt like earth has shattered. With thoughts and emotions at peak I kept affirming to know what happened and why it happened.

But I was clueless. I did not know what to do.

Many days passed. One fine morning in a thoughtful mood I asked my self- “Why it happened to me”.

Voila, I got the answer.

You know what the answer was-“I don’t know.”

I realized that it’s useless to give time to a question which has no relevance now. It has already gone. Let me look into the future.

And by this thought, I got positive vibes after a long time.

And subsequently I changed the question to “How to make it happen”.

It eased my problem and to this date I continue to use it in all circumstances, particularly the adverse one.

It works.